Gotcha. I thinks that’s just something that happens to all teens lol. But if you’re really concerned you should definitely talk to them, it’ll probably help if they know that you’re stressed out due to their short-temperdness.
So, I’m not sure if I got it correctly, but you said your friend was mad at you when you told her about your self harm thing? That’s kinda sucky. One of my friends is mad at me rn because I’m anorexic and bulimic, and I have no idea why! So I guess we’re sorta in the same boat here.